Although different women have different tastes and preferences when it comes to labeling men attractive, most women prefer men who are good looking, direct, faithful, understanding, honest, hardworking, mature and confident. Although most men lack one or more of these qualities, the few that have them all qualify as perfect men. Although most people argue that there is no such thing as a perfect man or woman, it is possible to find men who posses most of these favorable qualities.
The hard task for women is; finding and attracting these kinds of men. If you are tired of attracting the wrong kind of men, this article is for you. The key lies in thinking like the perfect guy. You must discover; what your perfect guy looks for in women, where he hangs out e.t.c. to be successful in finding him as well as dating him. Below are important tips to consider when you want to find the perfect guy.
1. Stop looking for the perfect guy
This is one of the most important tips to consider if you want to find the Mr. Right. As crazy as it sounds, you will have a harder time finding the perfect guy if you focus all your efforts on looking for him. What you may not realize the perfect guy and Mr. Right are two different people. It’s almost impossible for any guy to measure up to your ideal of the perfect guy. Most women who look for the perfect guy end up settling for something far less. The process of finding the Mr. Right shouldn’t be forced. It should happen magically. The key is to put yourself in the right places to meet him. Don’t go out of your way to impress. You should find him going about your daily schedule i.e. at work, at a business function, in the movies on weekend’s e.t.c. In short, finding your Mr. Right shouldn’t be your number one goal in life otherwise the process will seem forced or unnatural.
2. If you happen to see him, show some interest
This is the second most important tip to consider when you want to find Mr. Right. You shouldn’t take the hard to get approach too far if you are interested in attracting and keeping the right guy. Yeah it’s true that most people want what they can’t have, but remember one important thing, in general guys aren’t that complicated. They are basic in nature and a little slow to take a hint. It is important to note that most Mr. Right guys are generally nice guys. Unlike bad boys, nice guys get intimidated faster when you act disinterested. Although they may stick around for some time even when you are playing hard to get, you shouldn’t make it impossible for them to get to know you. You should also be open to approaching a nice guy or initiating a conversation.
3. Look in the right places
Although tip one discourages you from going out of your way to find the perfect guy, you should consider hanging out in the right places during your free time to increase your chances of meeting the perfect guy. It is important to note that most women have a hard time finding perfect guys because they hang out in all the wrong places. For instance, if your Mr. Right is a religious guy who values family, consider hanging out in church events, family events e.t.c. to increase your chances of finding your Mr. Right. If you don’t know where the right places are? Ask yourself what your ideal guy likes, what kind of functions he is most likely to attend e.t.c. This will help you discover the right places to look for him.
4. Get the right mindset
This is another important tip to consider when you want to find the perfect guy. It is important to note that your mindset may be hindering you from meeting the perfect guy. For instance, if you believe all men are dogs because your previous boyfriend cheated on you, you need to get rid of that mindset otherwise you won’t be ready to meet another person. You should instead focus on giving everyone man you meet an equal chance. Also, you should be open to showing interest/approaching even if most people think men should chase women. Being the first one to make the move doesn’t necessarily mean you are the one chasing men. It could mean you are giving someone you like an opportunity to chase you.
5. Have fun
This is the last most important tip to consider in this list. At the end of the day, dating is supposed to be fun. Instead of worrying too much about your looks, how to attract him, why you are having problems meeting him e.t.c., focus on being happy and sociable. At the end of the day, you are not making it easy for the perfect guy to find if you if you are always gloomy, antisocial e.t.c. You should be fun to be with at first glance otherwise very few guys will want to know you.
In summary, the above tips are adequate enough to guide you in the right direction when you want to find the perfect guy. You should focus more on making yourself attractive/ a catch as opposed to generalizing men, worrying too much or playing hard to get. When you do this, you will definitely have a higher chance of meeting Mr. Right.