Starting a marriage with a man who has come and gone out of your life as a woman can sometimes be very frustrating especially if you are trying to win him back. What are the steps should you use when trying to win him back? The following are some of the steps on how to get my man back;
1. Ask yourself the reasons for separation
You have to consider the factors that led to your break up were major or minor. In addition, you must also ask yourself why you need him back to your life. These questions will help you make an informed choice if you are thinking on whether the idea of getting back together is worthy or not.
2. Understand what causes you to miss him
You have to understand the happiness that your man was bringing to your life. Does he used to make you Laugh or smile? Can you live without him? These questions will definitely help you understand your emotional feeling towards your man.
3. Be careful at your words
You have to remember that the first words to say to your man are very important. This means that you must always avoid saying abusing words that will irritate him thus making you lose the chance to win him back. Try to make him understand that you do not even understand why you broke up in the first place. This will give an opportunity to initiate a communication about your past together thus helping you gauge whether he is still interested in a relationship with you.
4. Use the past marriage to your advantage
When talking to your man, make sure you take the advantage of your past to make him understand that both of you have something common that you need to explore together. You have to listen careful about his behavior since this should help you test whether he still have feeling for you.
5. Listen cautiously to his words
Most of the times many often says unusual things and this should help you gauge his interests. This will also give you chance to explain your interest especially on how you feel towards him. You have to take note of his feeling at the time you speak since silence is a sign of reception.
6. Find out whether he still loves you
Before asking him whether he would accept you back, you should always ask him whether he still cares about you. This should help you gauge the level of his feelings towards you. This is an important sign that your relationship can still be amended to make it work. In addition, also ask him whether he would like to have something non-committal. This request always intimidates guys and most of them always do not like it if they are serious about it.
7. Make him know that you care about him
You must always remind him that you often think about him. How do you do this? You can draft him a simple message while explaining how you feel about him. An immediate response will indicate that he is still interested in you.
8. Talk on how you would like to have your future marriage
Once he has accepted, make sure you talk about on how to have a healthy marriage.